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Today is World Voice Day.
It's a perfect reminder that when you speak â online or in-person âyou are merely repeating things you already know.Â
So, if you want to up-level your business and yourself so that you can truly step into your power and potential, do this:Â Â
1. Close your mouth. And watch this 3-minute video. It can change your life.Â
It's time to learn.Â
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I donât need International Womenâs Day (#IWD2021) to recall one of the women who has had a profound impact on my life.
She passed away in 1994, yet to this day, I talk about and think about her. Every. Single. Day.Â
Her name was Nettie Freeman. My sisters and I called her "Mama." She was our maternal grandmother.Â
Mama was born in 1899 in Brooklyn, New York. She was married for 63 years (to the same man), had three children and nine grandchildren. She lived to see 12 of her 21 great-grandchildren. She died at the age of 95.
How would Mama, who had a high school diploma and never worked outside the home, be an inspiration for International Womenâs Day?
Weâre so quick to compliment others.
Still, most of us struggle to receive praise and kind words.
How do you respond when someone commends you on a business report, new hairstyle or an impressive run on the ski slopes? Â
Do you smile and gracefully thank the other person? đ
Or do you deflect their comments and start overtalking?
Consider this scenario: A friend says, âI love your shirt; is it new?â Â
One typical response is: âYes, I got it on clearance and saved $20. I couldnât have afforded the full price. The car broke down last week...âđ
Another common reply: âNo, Iâve had this since last year; the buttonâs missing from the sleeve. Gosh, Iâve gotta buy some new clothes!â Â
The best answer, however, is one that is uplifting, positive and shows your own deep confidence.đ
You smile, throw your shoulders back (even if youâre on the phone or Zoom), and ...
"Just show up, share some value and post consistently."Â
Entrepreneurs and coaches who want to be seen and heard must know how to show up. Because showing up with valuable content brings credibility and clients.Â
Your content is your ticket to business growth.Â
But what does showing up as your true self (ok, the dreaded word "authentic") really mean???đ
How do you...
đ„Comment on an active thread in a way that's not salesy or pushy?Â
đ„Figure out what people want from you?Â
đ„Avoid embarrassing yourself in front of everyone on the Internet??Â
You can't be seen as a credible go-to expert in your niche if you're always questioning your self-worth and value. Â
If you want more clients, you've got to share your message online with pride. The business will follow. Â
Your message = money
Publicity = profits Â
đąShowing up in groups, chats and podcasts means you have deep-rooted confidence and belief in yourself.
You feel worthy.
You know your message is important. Â
You're will...
Stories around the holiday season run rampant.
From family and generational tales to Biblical passages, stories bring us together as human beings.Â
It is the words within the stories that wield true power.Â
Words move us deeply.
We listen, watch and read with wonderment, curiosity and emotion. Well-written and well-told stories have the power to move us to laughter...and to tears.
One thing Iâve noticed in business as âLifeâs Little Observerâ (being a people-watcher and listening with a keen ear as a news reporter) is this...
The highest paid people in the room are exceptional storytellers.
Believe me, I have interviewed everyone from homeless people to presidents. During my 35-year career, I have seen it all!Â
My point for everyday business pros like you is this:Â
Leaders are not supposed to know everything.
Plain and simple.
People everywhereâwhether they are entrepreneurs, stay-at-home parents or retiredâmost often succeed when they are willing to ask for help.
They are smart about their strengths and weaknesses.Â
Like many entrepreneurs, I used to think that asking for help or admitting you donât know something was a sign of weakness. But a few years into my entrepreneurial journey, I began thinking about delegation as a sign of humility; of being a human being.Â
You just can't know everything.
No one does. And no one ever will.
Leaders appreciate and respect what they knowâand donât know.
They donât see themselves as incompetent. They take a different approach by knowing they don't have to know everything.
Instead, successful folks look for people who have experience in what they lack or don'...
I was FaceTiming with my nephew Eric, a college senior preparing to take on the world and make his mark.
Eric loves writing and has a strong sense of himself. He's bold, fun and funny. But he scared me beyond words.Â
Eric told me about his papers and professors. I'm sure he saw me twitch as he described his writing style and expression within the confines of a college classroom. Â
I told Eric point-blank: For the most part, everything you've had to write in collegeâstyle, formats and opinions.âwill all go out the window.
The writing most of us have learned in school and have been using in business all these years is rarely effective these days.
Why?Â
Long, dry and stuffy writing is equivalent to a sleeping pill. People want personality and pizzazz. Â
Please don't misunderstand: College writing is essential in developing cri...
I was driving in a new area a few days ago and got lost...despite the GPS.
So I approached another human being who was walking his dog and he gave me on-point directions. "Go 2 miles; you'll pass the library and a gas station. At the light, turn left onto Broadway. There's a Walgreens on the corner. Take Broadway about half-a-mile and you'll see signs for the highway on the right. Bear right and then stay left towards Highway 10."
The various places and signs he told me to look for were super helpful in me finding my way. Being specific in our communication is critical, especially when we "talk to ourselves"...you know the internal soundtrack that's constantly looping in our heads. Our brains are wired to be specific. When we write down clear goals, our brains become laser-focused and move us towards what we want.
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A key take-away from students in one of my recent online coaching programs wa...
Hundreds of people over the years have asked me why reporters and podcasters are so dang hard to reach.
Why are they grumpy, uninterested and non-responsive?
Hereâs the secret:
Ninety-five percent of the pitches and âgreat story ideasâ that are sent are irrelevant. They aren't newsworthy. They aren't valuable and âworthyâ of an audienceâs attention and interest.
It's that simple.
I was a radio news reporter and on-air anchor. I received thousands of pitches during my 10-year career in newsrooms in New Jersey and New York.
I decided what was newsworthy. I was the gatekeeper.
My audience depended on my sound judgement to share important, compelling and interesting stories that affected them. The same is true today with reportersâand podcasters. They want subject matter expertsâpeople like YOU! Â
So, are you relevant to their audience???Â
Just a Lil' Tweak
One of my...
As we wrap up the summer, take time to catch up on some of the goofy business things that may be nagging at you day-to-day. #Energydrains
If you're ready to recharge your battery and kick-start your success, this list will help.
These small tasks can make your life less stressful and easier to manage day-to-day. You may even develop a new habit.
1. Clean up your contact lists and database.
2. Sort through your Favorites and Bookmarks. Categorize them and delete the ones that are no longer relevant.
3. Go paperless when possible. Shred or toss old papers you donât need.
4. Read the magazines youâve been saving for the past three months.
5. Get rid of the magazines youâve been saving for the past three months.
6. Contact someone you admire and ask to interview them for a post or video.
7. Volunteer with a local nonprofit that can benefit from your business expertise.
8...
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